May
31

What is your biggest Law Of Attraction challenge?

By Nicole Barkai

Is there an area of your life that you find very difficult to successfully apply the Law of Attraction to?

“I’ve all read the books and watched the videos. I know enough to write books about this stuff myself. So why is it still not working for me?”

If you’ve felt that way before, it’s ok, don’t be hard on yourself. When you start understanding and applying this law, you will naturally find it easier in some areas than in others.
The determining factor is how much resistance you have for that particular subject. The more negative beliefs and memories you have associated with a subject, the harder it is going to be to “master” the control in that area. That’s obviously not saying it’s impossible! Just that it will probably take a little more work (conscious awareness) on your part.

In my life, my most challenging area has been bringing up my kids in the “Law of Attraction Way”. That to me means allowing them to follow their inner guidance, without letting my own resistance (and fears) get in the way. This has been tremendously challenging for me. You want to teach your kids that the world is a beautiful place, with limitless possibilities. However you also want to make sure that they are safe, and know how to be careful of potential dangers. This is a bit of a contradiction. Teach them about fears and inflict your own resistance on them, or let them follow their little hearts to bliss? Wouldn’t it be irresponsible of me not to warn them not to speak to strangers? Or will I turn them into scared, closed people?

I know this is not merely a Law of Attraction issue. This does go beyond that. But as a constant student, practicer and coach of the Law of Attraction, I am faced with this issue daily. Honestly (and obviously…) I don’t have all the answers. I’m learning as I go along. I believe life is one long continuous lesson and you never really get it done.

However, if I were to try answer this question (say if someone came to me with this issue) I suppose the basic formula would have to be applied:

“Look within and follow your inner guidance”.
This sounds very simplistic, I know, but it’s really the only true way to deal with things. Do what feels right. What if I don’t know what feels right? Find out!
Meditate, do what ever it takes to get in touch with your self, your core, that beautiful place within you where all the answers abide.

(I love how I’m giving myself a LOA coaching session through the blog, lol! :) )

On my next post I intend to discuss other areas of my life which I found challenging and tell you what I did to conquer them.

What areas of your life do you find most challenging to apply the Law of Attraction to? What other areas have been easy for you? Examine what was the pattern that worked for you in those areas, and see if you can apply it to the other more challenging areas of your life.

Have a glorious day!

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Comments

  1. Good post, Nicole! I have found my biggest challenge surrounding the LOA to be in the area of financial abundance. I think from early on I had a sort of subliminal scarcity mindset that has been pretty firmly entrenched. I’m making good headway, but it takes very focused and consistent thought redirection. The good new is that the redirection is becoming more and more seamless and automatic in my thought patterns. Still, I think it’s referenced as “practicing” the LOA for a reason. It’s not a destination, it’s a journey. Thanks for the conversation!

  2. Nicole Barkai says:

    Hi Clare,

    We so often find this to be the most challenging subject of them all! So many of us grow up with scarcity “banged” into our heads, mostly by well meaning adults around us. The unlearing of old habbits and reprogramming of new thought patterns indeed takes practice. I’m glad to hear you are doing well with that! I am looking into a very interesting program these days, which deals with these money issues. Stay tuned for a blog post about it pretty soon… :-)

    Nicole

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